For a husband and a wife who remain childless their top option to refute their longing for a child is to adopt. Fear, however, comes their way upon going through an adoption. Conflicts arise between the adoptive parent and their non-biological child who become exasperated and depressed upon knowing that they are adopted. To reduce the pressure, here are some guidelines on how to handle the baby you hope to adopt.
The prevailing agreement among child experts is for adoptive parents to let their adopted child know about their adoption – and not other people. It is advisable that at age two or three is the best time telling him the reality about his status. This early telling is to be followed up periodically throughout his childhood. Studies reveal that in this way, negative reactions are minimized if adopted children are informed about their adoption before age five.
Keeping adoption a secret is difficult. Family members, relatives and friends could let it slip unintentionally. Or perhaps the adopted child discovers his true identity through his birth certificate, letters or other documents accidentally. Without firsthand information, this child might become irritated from the tease he hear from his friends and classmates, he might even get emotionally upset and disturbed, resulting in a strained parent-child relationship.
It is an obligation to adoptive parents to be open and honest so that the adopted can be free to discuss any topic regarding his adoption. When parents responses are dishonest and evasive, the child may think or sense something for worse than the truth.
Make your child understand that he didn’t come from your body but to someone else. Though it’s like that, tell him you want him and will always love him. You may not have the right answers to his questions, but remember that your emotional tone is as important as the words you say. Your feelings of love, understanding and respect have a greater impact on him.
To be adopted is a privilege. It means that one is desired, wanted and most of all loved. To adopt someone is a decision and that decision is not easy.

POMONA – Animal control officers found 155 homemade coffins with dead cats inside when they searched a cat adoption service run from a home.

The Florence Area Humane Society will have a pet adoption from 6:15 to 8:30 p.m. Tuesday at the Florence RedWolves baseball game in celebration of mascot Homer’s birthday. The society will have kittens and puppies available for the event.

Clothes, shoes, appliances – these are the things people expect to find at North Hanover Mall. But today, shoppers also can find dogs and cats that are up for adoption from the Adams County Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Animals.

Today is Flag Day, which commemorates the adoption of the flag of the United States in 1777 by the Second Continental Congress.

LANSING — The “Find a New Best Friend” Pet Adoption Fest will be held on Sunday, June 29, from noon to 3 p.m. at Best Friends Pet Care, 2920 W. Airport Service Drive in Lansing.

Alicia Keys admires Angelina Jolie for her decision to adopt children from around the world.

Colony Veterinary Hospital serves as Enterprise’s city pound and a number of dogs – small and large – kittens and large cats are available for adoption.

The last time The Herald wrote about David and Koral Yarian, in 1985, the husband and wife were still getting used to being the adoptive parents of Korean-born sisters Emily, almost 5, and Sara, 1. Twenty-three years later, the memories of welcoming the girls home to the United States are just as strong as the day they first met.

Eat pizza, fight cancer; learn about adoption at library; Kotowski, Quinn host meeting